Adoption will always remain a tough decision for any birth matter and adoptive parents. The very basic thing required by a birth mother for adoption is the profile of adoptive parents. The adoptive parents’ profiles include information about the family, some photographs and a letter to the birthmother. The adoptive parent profiles are collected by the birthmother, which helps her to decide the best family for her child’s adoption.
What is the role of a counselor in creating your adoptive profile?
Your adoptive parent’s profile matters a lot so you can take the help of a counselor in wrapping up things. The counselor will put together some information documents, autobiographies of family and some family photographs. He or she will guide you which photographs to put and what should be written in the letter and autobiographies.
Some key points regarding the letter
You need to be honest while writing the letter. It is a tough job for any mother to give away her child so need to understand the sensitivity of a mother. You should answer all questions in prior which a birthmother may ask. She will evaluate you as per your letter so you may write things will ensure her child’s safety. Your letter should reflect the feelings that a birthmother has.
Your adoptive parent profile should reflect love and acceptance for the child. You should attach a variety of photographs of your family and spouse which will give an idea of your family. The profile is a collection of documents and photos that will help the birth parent to choose the right adoptive family. The profile should contain the best information that can help the birth parents to decide. You should try to give as many photos as you can because it will reflect your family background.